Finding My Voice: From Facebook Fatigue to Blogging Bliss
Remember when Facebook was fun? We'd post those emo song lyrics (no judgment!), share photos from our latest adventures, and maybe even do a little "research" on that old crush. But then things changed. The constant negativity, the oversharing, the feeling that everyone was trying to prove something... it just got exhausting.
It felt like everyone was constantly competing for the "perfect" life – the perfect vacation, the perfect kids, the perfect home. It was exhausting, and honestly, it made me feel inadequate sometimes. And then there were the arguments. Remember those "debates" that would erupt in the comments section? Whether it was politics, parenting, or the proper way to load a dishwasher, it seemed like every topic turned into a battleground. I'd find myself getting sucked in, my blood pressure rising with every notification.
Gradually, Facebook became less about connecting with friends and family and more about scrolling through an endless stream of negativity. I'd lose hours each day getting sucked into the vortex, reading inflammatory posts, watching pointless videos, and feeling my anxiety levels rise with each refresh. It was a massive time waster, and it started to affect my mood and productivity.
Remember when people used to share funny stories or exciting updates about their lives? Those posts became fewer and further between, eventually replaced by a constant barrage of complaints, rants, and depressing news stories. It felt like I was wading through a swamp of negativity every time I logged on. And the drama... from family feuds spilling out onto my newsfeed to friends publicly airing their dirty laundry, it was like a never-ending soap opera. I just couldn't take it anymore.
So, I deactivated my account and focused more on my writing. But that blue screen addiction is real, and there were certain stories I wanted to share – Penny's beautiful artwork, Thomas taking his oath for the Marines, Noah joining the robotics team. I felt like I was robbing people of the chance to celebrate these moments with us. I still used my blog, but it wasn't a family blog; it was more of a place where I shared my bookish quirks. That's why I created this blog – a dedicated space to connect with loved ones and share the things that bring us joy. And honestly? I haven't missed Facebook for a second. I reach out to the people I care to keep in contact with, shrinking that circle, after all, we shouldn’t prioritize quantity over quality.